In a P.S. to one of Tara Barthel's recent blog posts, she quotes G. K. Chesterton. As always, Chesterton is brilliant! [Emphasis mine.]
“Babies need not to be taught a trade,
but to be introduced to a world. To put the matter shortly, woman is
generally shut up in a house with a human being at the time when he asks
all the questions that there are, and some that there aren’t. It would
be odd if she retained any of the narrowness of a specialist. Now if
anyone says that this duty of general enlightenment (even when freed
from modern rules and hours, and exercised more spontaneously by a more
protected person) is in itself too exacting and oppressive, I can
understand the view. I can only answer that our race has thought it
worth while to cast this burden on women in order to keep common-sense
in the world.
But when people begin to talk about this
domestic duty as not merely difficult but trivial and dreary, I simply
give up the question. For I cannot with the utmost energy of imagination
conceive what they mean. When domesticity, for instance, is called
drudgery, all the difficulty arises from a double meaning in the word.
If drudgery only means dreadfully hard work, I admit the woman drudges
in the home, as a man might drudge at the Cathedral of Amiens or drudge
behind a gun at Trafalgar. But if it means that the hard work is more
heavy because it is trifling, colorless and of small import to the soul,
then as I say, I give it up; I do not know what the words mean.
To be Queen Elizabeth within a definite
area, deciding sales, banquets, labors and holidays; to be Whiteley
within a certain area, providing toys, boots, sheets cakes. and books,
to be Aristotle within a certain area, teaching morals, manners,
theology, and hygiene; I can understand how this might exhaust the mind, but I cannot imagine how it could narrow it.
How can it be a large career to tell other people’s children about the
Rule of Three, and a small career to tell one’s own children about the
universe? How can it be broad to be the same thing to everyone, and
narrow to be everything to someone? No; a woman’s function is laborious,
but because it is gigantic, not because it is minute.” G.K. Chesterton
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